Third Commandment: Remember the Sabbath day by keeping it holy. Exodus 20:8 What does this mean? We should fear and love God so that we do not despise preaching and His Word, but hold it sacred and gladly hear and learn it. Fourth Commandment: Honor your father and your mother. Exodus 20:12 What does this mean? We should fear and love God so that we do not despise or anger our parents and other authorities, but honor them, serve and obey them, love and cherish them.